Dating

[twinsmom2001]

I went out on a date during the week for the first time. My kids are finally old enough to be left alone.   We were having a really great time but I had to cut it short because I don't like leaving the kids alone for more than a couple of hours.  The kids were already in bed and I have a finished basement so I invited him in for a drink. 

Now I feel like a terrible mother.  Is it bad that I had a man in the house while the kids were upstairs sleeping?  All we did was sit on the couch and watch a movie then he left.

Thoughts?

[deltathree]

this - esp. being the 1st date..... 

Quoting mytrueloveS:

I'm uneasy, I would never let a date know where I live, especially if my children were home. Be careful who you bring around your children, you never know what type of person you might be dealing with.

 

[s.osborne]

This is the 2nd post this person has made about this and this is exactly what i said the 1st time.

Quoting deltathree:

this - esp. being the 1st date..... 

Quoting mytrueloveS:

I'm uneasy, I would never let a date know where I live, especially if my children were home. Be careful who you bring around your children, you never know what type of person you might be dealing with.

 

[LifeCafe42]

I dated someone for a bit and we couldn't go out no sitter so he would come over after DS was in bed and we would talk watch movies etc.