My husband and I had 5 children together,we've been going through a divorce over a year.He is known for drugs and alcohol and abuse-proof with police reports etc.I had to pay 5,000.00 for my lawyer and am still a yr later yet to have our first trial because he keeps getting it extended.He did last time by cussing his lawyer in court house hall way and then firing him.Then in the courtroom he said they couldn't proceed because he had no lawyer.ITS RIDICULOUS.TO SAY THE LEAST.THE JUDGE PUT IN THE MEMORANDUM HE COULDNT USE ANY ILLEGAL DRUGS OR ALCOHOL 24 HRS PRIOR NOR DURING VISITS.HE HASNT PAID CHILD SUPPORT AT ALL FOR ALL OF LAST YEAR.IT IS COURT ORDERED.HE LIVES RENT FREE IN ONE OF HIS PARENT'S HOMES AND WORKS FOR HIS DAD WHEN HE WANTS TO FOR PARTY MONEY.YET I HAVE TO WORK FULL TIME GO TO COLLEGE FULL TIME AND SUPPORT MY 5 KIDS ALL BY MYSELF. IM FUCKING PISSED TO SAY THE LEAST THAT THE JUDGE LETS HIM OFF SCOTT FREE. HE HAS HAD NO REPROCUSSIONS....HE STOLE MY TAX MONEY THIS YEAR AGAIN AND CLAIMED THE KIDS WHEN HE DIDNT HAVE THEM ALL YEAR BECAUSE I HAD TO GET AN EPO ON HIM AND MOVE TO ANOTHER STATE FOR SAFTEY. THE ONLY THING THE JUDGE HAS DONE IS PUT THE PUNSIHMENT OF ME DRIVING THE KIDS BACK N FORTH FOR HIS WEEKEND VISIT A MONTH.IT IS A 7 1/2 HR TRIP ONE WAY SO ABOUT 300.00 FOR GAS OUT OF MY POCKET.All because I moved out of state because he was soo abusive and was threatening to get dropped off near my house and kill me without me ever knowing he was coming. I told the judge he had abused our kids even gave him specific events and told in the courtroom exactly what happened. HE LEFT THE KIDS OFF THE EPO WHEN I THOUGHT HE PUT THEM ON AS WELL.SO I LEFT THE STATE FOR SAFETY,COME TO FIND OUT WHEN I GOT THE COPY OF THE EPO IT DIDNT HAVE THE KIDS JUST ME. SO I WAS CHARGED AND INSTEAD OF JAIL TIME THAT WAS MY PUNSIHMENT.I AM NOT KIDDING AS CRAZY AS IT SOUNDS.ALSO I HAVE A CLEAN RECORD NEVER EVEN HAD A TRAFFIC TICKET HE (MY HUSBAND) HAS PAGES FULL OF CRIMES COMMITTED AND FACING FELONY CHARGES WHICH THEY HAVE EXTENDED THE TRIAL ON FOR OVER A YEAR AND A HALF FOR HIM.)
HE ALSO FATHERED ANOTHER CHILD WHILE WE WERE MARRIED,WHICH I PROVIDED THE DNA PAPERS TO PROVE,AND HE HAS NO LICENSE NOW DUE TO SOO MANY DUI'S AND ELUDING POLICE CHARGES.
I PLAN ON WRITING ABOUT ALL THIS IN THE NEWSPAPERS AND EVERYWHERE I CAN WHEN THIS IS ALL OVER. I WILL HAVE THAT JUDGES JOB,INCLUDING THE OFFICERS IN THE COURTHOUSE,FOR LOSING (SUPPOSEDLY LOSING) MY LAST POLICE REPORT. THE STATE POLICE TOLD ME THEY CAN'T LOSE REPORTS BECAUSE THEY GO RIGHT INTO THE SYSTEM.WELL GUESS WHAT THEY SAID THEY LOST IT BLAMED IT ON THE PROSECUTOR AND HE BLAMES THEM IF HE'S ASKED.IT'S A MESS AND A DISGRACE. COURTROOMS ARE NOTHING TO ME ANYMORE BUT WORTHLESS AND SO ARE JUDGES AND LAWYERS.