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Asking for you ladies to say a prayer for me...UPDATE~

Posted by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 7:35 AM
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So my 4th child Taber,is sick been in n out of the hospital since last Wednesday.They said she had a virus which I disagreed because she's sooo sick.They found her labs to be abnormal-something in her blood chemistry-I cant understand the word because her doctor whom I really like-is korean and I cant understand the word because it's a medical odd term and she has an accent. So I plan on writing it down today at her office.i have to go there pick up papers and take my daughter to the hospital for more labs because her last 2 came back abnormal. The doctor told me last night she and another physician are trying to figure out what it is-either something in her bones or something in her liver/or to do with either of those.They wanted labs for a third time for more testing. I'm asking for your help with a prayer everything turns out ok. Taber is 7 yrs old and was born with gastroschisis.Her intestines and stomach were on the outside of her abdomen.After a little over 3 months in the nicunit she has been fine til now-just no belly button.

She and I

Also another prayer I dont freak on my ex as he actually says he's coming to visit them first time in over a year..........and has not helped or paid any child support and filed and claimed all 5 of our kids  on his taxes when he didnt have them all year.-haha! No, I will remain calm and collected to the eye ,but in my MIND WELL THAT'S ANOTHER STORY!!! I did however turn him into the IRS for the illegal claiming of the kids.

Thank YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!!

Well after 4 sets of different labs and everytime the value they are looking at in her blood chemistry shows something going on with her liver.Though the doctor now says she wants to recheck it again in a month or two.I am not in agreeance at all with that.I trust regular doctors with regular illnesses.I dont however trust them with things of this matter.So seeking another opinion from a specialist,and a high risk pediatric surgeon,whom of which my daughter had in the past. I've found sometimes regular doctors dont like to admit they are not qualified enough. Also in knowing that sometimes liver problems can be reversible TIME means more damage the faster the issue is found and dealt with the better.So I won't be waiting around for my daughter's regular pediatrician to get labs from her for a 5th time after so long to say she is going to the next step. As for my ex he showed up actually. He did great with the kids,but is wanting me to get back with him as always...ughhhh

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PhoenixMomof3
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 7:39 AM
Keeping you in our prayers for sure! Keep us updated! Super cute picture too! :)
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PhoenixMomof3
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 7:43 AM
I didn't catch the last part initially... wow! Yeah, go to child support and file a case stating the day he moved out! And make sure you let the IRS know you are in a severe hardship situation. I had a co-worker whose ex claimed their kids and the IRS was very slow moving on it. Finally she did "something" which alerted them to the fact that she was in a position of hardship and it appeared to have sped the process up! Look into it!

Good luck!
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mytrueloveS
by Lori on Feb. 5, 2013 at 9:22 AM

Hope all is well with your daughter.  

victoriahearts
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 9:28 AM

I will pray for your baby, I hope all goes well with the ex too. 

HyperMom38
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 9:30 AM
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God, grant this mother peace and serenity in her time of need.  Please help her to forgive her ex for his transgressions against You so she is able to focus her energies on her daughter.  God, please place your healing hand be upon this child.  God, we thank you for the wisdom you will give to the doctors to know what is causing this childs illness and to treat it.  God please allow this child a complete and full healing so that the world will see Your Glory!  In Jesus' name I pray.  Amen.

Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Feb. 5, 2013 at 10:49 AM

Prayers sent!

deltathree
by Gold Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 12:27 PM

prayers sent your way mama - hugs       praying

gcstar42
by Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 12:32 PM

I said a prayer for you. Good luck with everything mama.

breebree04
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 12:47 PM

Said a prayer for your baby girl! Good for you for reporting your ex to irs. What an ass to think that was ok to take money away from you and your kids.

easinpc
by Gold Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:11 PM

Hugs!!  I hope she gets better soon!!!

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