My daughter's father hardly looks for her. It's been several months since we broke up & once a week is "too much" to see her & take her. Sometimes I feel like I force her on him too much. Is that going to bite me in the long run? Should I continue making him come for her? Or should I make him realize on his own that he is missing out on her by not allowing him to see her? I grew up w/o my dad so I know what it's like. Help? Please & thank you.