My ex called me yesterday telling me to stop getting mad at my son and lecturing him. My son got a DS for Christmas, we both went half on it to get it for him. Well according to my ex he was the one who bought it and has all the right and say when it comes to the game. I can't get mad at my son anymore because he goes and tells his daddy and my ex calls and lectures me!! Then my ex has the audacity to tell me my bf can't sleep in my bed (my son told him). We are finally moving in together, my son can't sleep in my room anymore, he has to sleep in his. I'm making it as smooth as possible for him to get used to sleeping in his own room, but he tells daddy and daddy gets mad at me.
By the way, my ex, his gf, their kid, and when my son decideds to spend the night over, they all sleep in the same bed.
I talked to my son about this yesterday, but he's only 5 and I'm not sure he fully understands. Now I'm worried if my bf and I have a little argument my son will go tell his father about our problems or what goes on around the house. This is none of his business and has no right calling me to tell what I can or cannot say to my son.
i wouold tell him what goes on in my home on my time is not your say or business. he will tell you "its my kid" thats when you tell him you dont tell HIM wtf to do on HIS time and to butt the fuck out. then once you have told him, dont entertain him to argue. hang up when he tries. he will shut up when he realizes you arent listening. and a court wont listen to this shit, only serious issues so he doesnt have a pot to piss in
Quoting butcher:he shud mind his biz unless its a hazardous situation. children should not be sleeping with their parents reguardless of the age its a bad habbit.
Quoting faerie75:
i wouold tell him what goes on in my home on my time is not your say or business. he will tell you "its my kid" thats when you tell him you dont tell HIM wtf to do on HIS time and to butt the fuck out. then once you have told him, dont entertain him to argue. hang up when he tries. he will shut up when he realizes you arent listening. and a court wont listen to this shit, only serious issues so he doesnt have a pot to piss in
^ This, but perhaps not quite the same vocabulary. LOL!
Heart you, Faerie. ;)
Finally tears of happiness.
- mytrueloveS
on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:26 PM