I can't! My son keeps talking about his dad and it's bugging me, so I finally let him call his father.(and the only reason I didnt before because I feel like a 27 year old guy should be picking up the phone to call...not the 3 year old). Anywho, he wasn't there but I spoke to their grandpa. He was like oooh I miss you guys so much.(In my head Im like yeah that can be solved by someone calling them or asking me to bring them to you guys) And he tells me I need to let them come over. I said hold up your son needs to come pick them up. He doesnt want to. And I found out that he is working again...so hopefully I should be getting child support again in like a month. I'm going to make sure I call and tell them to scan his social because he has a new job. . I had to vent lol. But if feels good knowing that they spoke to someone from that side of the family. Hopefully he will finally spend time with them this weekend. Mommy needs a big big big break!