i was with someone and yesterday i found out i am 6 weeks pregnant with his baby. hes told me i ruined his life and that i should abort it and has called me a lot of things. i dont want to do this alone but i cant have an abortion and if i give my peanut up fpr adoption my family will never speak to me again. i need someone well anyones help. my doctors have told me i could never get pregnant this is a miracle to me.
You're in the same situation I was in last year. Keep your baby, if it feels right for you! I'm 17 and a single mom as well. You can message me if you need someone to talk to! Babies truly are a miracle! :) They truly do make your life better.
Welcome to the group and congrats on your miracle.
What you do is up to YOU not the man you were with or anyone else. You need to do what you feel is best for yourself and for this child.
Quoting neveraagain01:i was with someone and yesterday i found out i am 6 weeks pregnant with his baby. hes told me i ruined his life and that i should abort it and has called me a lot of things. i dont want to do this alone but i cant have an abortion and if i give my peanut up fpr adoption my family will never speak to me again. i need someone well anyones help. my doctors have told me i could never get pregnant this is a miracle to me.
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You should go with the wishes of your family instead of what your boyfriend says in regards to the baby. If he did not want to become a father at his age, he should not have had sex with you at all. You should remind him that it takes two people to create a child, and he ruined his own life. It sounds like your parents will help you with raising your child which will be a positive thing. You should continue past high school and into college to get into a good paying profession to support the both of you. You should file for child support when the baby is born. He can deny parenity, but a DNA test will prove otherwise.
I think you need to sit down and think whats best for yourself. Whether it be abortion, adoption or keeping it. None of them are easy choices. Good luck honey!
Hi and welcome to the group.
You do what you feel is right. If your family backs you up 100%, then stay with that.
Keep your baby if thats what you feel is the right thing. It may seem impossible but I promise you it will be just fine. Dig deep down and fight your way through this.
baby daddy advice.... how would you take this???
- neveraagain01
on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:48 PM