If you've read my last post you know recently my ex and I went to court because he hasnt been paying cs. They told him to have $500 by the 10th of april or I assume he is going to jail. Im hoping this is the last court date because its all one big headache. While cs is great to help with my son, I never wanted it at all, but my son is on medicaid and my job dont have benefits. I keep going back and forth on whether I should just get sole custody of my son or petition to have his rights signed over OR just leave it alone. My son's father has been in and out of his life since he was 5 months and the last time he's seen.my son was in December and thats cause he was upset with me over cs and started calling me a money hungry bitch which is crazy because I only asked him for pampers three or four times and I have a job. Its like he only wants to be a father when he wants, and aside from arguing over bs, I just want to be completely done with him. I have a affidavit of the things he bought from where my son was born until December last year, which wasnt much. Has anyone else gone through this? While I want my son to know his dad, it isnt worth a dad who doesnt want to be there for his son. Not to mention, I cant even have a conversation with him without arguing. Im just fed up. Any advice?
on Feb. 10, 2013 at 4:34 PM