I'm curious if there are other moms who are dealing with a husband who came back from deployment only to leave to be with a woman they met and served with during deployment. UUGGHH!! We were married for almost 20 years when he left for this "Captain" he had only known a year or so. Our divorce is not final. He filed over 6 months ago, and it just sits there. I have been praying, but don't see any clear direction. I don't want a divorce, and I'm not going to do it for him. He filed on our 20th Wedding aniversary. Nice, don't you think?