BF is playing the "this is what the ex parte order says so I can do whatever I want" card again this week.
It's unreal that he thinks I am just going to give him custody of our DS without a fight just because he somehow managed to have a judge sign an ex parte order preventing me to leave the state.
All the sudden he wants to put his big boy pants on and play daddy after being a dead beat for 2.5 years, but never paid a dime in CS?
I watching him learn to crawl. I watched his first step. Heard his first word. Spent every holiday and birthday with him. JUST ME.
I realize all this will change once we go to court, but its freaking hard to wake up without my son with me everyday.
I have an amazing lawyer and enough evidence for a judge to through the book at him, but I still freak out almost every day my mind will not shut off. I just keep coming up with all these what ifs that he could try to put and obviously he has to be pretty good at bs-ing a judge to get one to sign one in the first place.
His heartless high and mighty attitude all the sudden is ridiculous. He yells at my son all the time. Has zero patience. I went over to his house the other day bc I wanted to see DS for a few hours and ended up giving him a bath....AT BF HOUSE....BC HE "DIDNT KNOW HOW TO DO IT" .......
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?! He doesnt take care of our son his mommy and fiance do.
Im not sure if he is doing this out of spite bc I left him or bc he doesnt wanna pay CS, back CS, or the state back, but all of this is killing me.
To top it all off I have zero support system here.