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Move in with boyfriend?

Posted by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 12:55 PM
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, and wanting to move in together. My son and him get along so great and no problems there. However I have joint custody with my son dad, and I don't know if he can take me to court because I live with my boyfriend. Could he use that aganist me? He is in a relationship as well and is happy I suppose. Any advice? 

by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 12:55 PM
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easinpc
by Gold Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 1:43 PM

Does your custody agreement say anything about living with someone before marriage?

steviechick
by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 1:46 PM

Check your custody agreement for anything that relates to bf/gf moving in after divorce.  I would think it's okay unless it's stated otherwise. 

kary1124
by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 1:50 PM

yea as long as it doesnt say anything about it in the court order youll be fine

PeaceLoveZ
by Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 2:57 PM

 I say don't move in with someone and have them be an active part in you and your child's life without a 100% commitment.
Sorry, my boyfriend just unexpectedly broke my heart so I am very bitter right now.

brieri
by Platinum Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 3:47 PM

 I don't think he has a say in who you live with, unless he's up against himself as well.

Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Feb. 13, 2013 at 10:50 AM
As long as there is nothing in the court order than you can do as you please.
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momarose17
by on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:47 AM

 No it doesn't, it just says how we aren't aloud to have to opposite sex whom isn't related by blood over untill together for 2months. 

momarose17
by on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:49 AM

I'm sorry about that :( I hope things get better. What happened?

hnjen12
by on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:51 AM

I say talk to ex first, get a feel for how he would react. have him & current boyfriend met yet.

mytrueloveS
by on Feb. 13, 2013 at 12:19 PM
Move in, unless ur order says otherwise.
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