I call bullshit!
This guy used to work with my mom, and when he broke up with his girlfriend he and I started hanging out. My mom as worked at this restaurant for 11 years so my kids have grown up there. We know everyone and everyone knows us. My kids have always liked this guy and I have seen him outside of their work before, but it was more so when they broke up. He tried to ask me out but I said no because he was way to close to my kids and if something went wrong then there would be another guy out of their life. He had been over at our house a lot and my kids were so used to it.
Well, a few weeks after he asked me out and I said no, he went to Vegas with a group of people and came back in relationship with a girl from his work. When that happened, my kids and I were dropped like flies. Now he and that girl have broken up and the day after they broke up he starts texting me again.
Today he has been bugging me to come see him at his work, he is lonely and bored and blah blah blah. GUESS WHAT! I have been single on V-day for the past 3 years and I may be lonely but I am not lonely enough to want to see someone who only has time for myself and my children when he is single. screw that.
I asked him why he wanted me to come see him, and he said "I'm soooo bored and I wanted to see my friend"
that tore it. I have brought it up to him before about it seeming odd that now that he single he is talking to me again his response was that when he is in a relationship he closes off the world but when he is single he is an open book. I call bullshit!
I couldn't hold my frustration in any longer. I said "Your friend? Your friend that you stopped talking to once you got a girlfriend? The friend whose kids you left behind when you got a girlfriend? And the friend that you now want to talk to because you are single?"
I haven't received a response. I kind of want to know what his defense is going to be. I am sick and tired of my kids being left behind by every guy they become close to, including their father, because of a new relationship. I am not going to put them through that. anymore. The last guy I dated, never met my kids. I am very glad that he didn't because he turned slightly obsessive.
Ok, I had to vent. I had to get this out of my system.