First off I didnt even have time to make it to the court house. I had to take the kids to their appts and I had a million errands to run. He took tje kids last weekend I guess because I let my son call his house. Tomorrow he said he will get them not overnight but only a few hours. I figure, its better than nothing. I asked for a pick up and bring back time so that I dont have to sit in the house waiting on him because I had thimgs to do. He told me that thats talking shit so bye. BYE? Wth. So I said ok whatever can u still give me the timed thats all Im contacting u for. This BOY sent me about 8 emails talking crap and my only response was ok but what time are you taking them. He told me I needed help and thats when I blocked him. He will have to call my house from now on. So lets do the count...1 visit in february, 0 in january, 2 in december, and 1 in november. Ugh...I did have things I wanted to do by myself, but Ill have to cancel all of it. He always does this.
Guess what I did a horrible job blocking him lol because he emailed me this morning. He asked when am I going to take him to court so he doesnt have to deal with me. I replied please dont contact me unless you are telling me times your getting and bringing them back or unless theres an emergency with them. He responds back. This is about the kids. And a second one that said This is so that I don't ever have to speak to you again. I didnt respond back. So you can send me a message the day after a missed visit to bug me about court, but you couldnt tell me what time you were coming to get the kids. Makes no sense to me. It's all a big game. What I wanted to say was...Call the damn court office or wait for the mailman to serve you with papers to find out the date and leave me the hell alone. But I need to look cute for court lol so I will keep my comments to myself. And instead of me waiting until the 28th to to file I have an idea. I will pick up the paperwork on my lunch break Tuesday. Drop it off along with everything in writing when I get off. Then go back on my lunch break Wednesday to review what they put in and sign off on everything. I wish I had the time to go there during weekdays but I work during those hours.
Now hes sending stuff about me being with another guy and us breaking up lol. The funny thing is Im not responding and he;s still going smh.
Quoting nerdymom28:
Save those emails, including your responses. He seems unstable...you might need them one day.
If he can't tell you a specific time, don't let him take the kids until he learns to. Follow the visitation order, it's much easier. If you don't have one, get one.
Quoting mytrueloveS:If he can't tell you a specific time, don't let him take the kids until he learns to. Follow the visitation order, it's much easier. If you don't have one, get one.
Quoting mytrueloveS:If he can't tell you a specific time, don't let him take the kids until he learns to. Follow the visitation order, it's much easier. If you don't have one, get one.
Quoting LifeCafe42:
I agree and save everything don't answer the phone only communicate through text or email that way you have it all documented
Quoting mytrueloveS:If he can't tell you a specific time, don't let him take the kids until he learns to. Follow the visitation order, it's much easier. If you don't have one, get one.
I would be taking those emails to court to try to get his visitation changed, frankly. You, very reasonably, asked what time he would be getting the kids. And he responds with 8 emails that not only don't answer the question, but ultimately make him look, if not unstable, at the very least like a total jerk.
I would definitely keep track of missed visits, save every email or text, everything.
I was supposed to go yesterday but got caught up. My next day off is the 28th so I'll do it then. And everything will change. Then he was laughing at me in all the messages also and saying something about him working now. It's all funny, but you have a job and arent paying child support. Last time they gave him 14 days to pay 500 or sit his butt in jail. He went and sold drugs for the money.(He told me this) The judge told him off so bad because he kept giving her excuses as to why he cant do this and that. So when we go back it hopefully it will be the same deal. I hope I get that mean judge again lol.
Quoting wendythewriter:I would be taking those emails to court to try to get his visitation changed, frankly. You, very reasonably, asked what time he would be getting the kids. And he responds with 8 emails that not only don't answer the question, but ultimately make him look, if not unstable, at the very least like a total jerk.
I would definitely keep track of missed visits, save every email or text, everything.
Scared to get out of my comfort zone
- pianokisses
on Feb. 15, 2013 at 11:10 PM