There's this guy. *sigh* He's so nice and polite and yes attractive. We don't work together but our jobs meet 3 times a week. We chit chat about random things ( you how was your weekend, what church you go to. Yada yada) So anyway I decided to be flirty with him. You know put alittle extra effort into my outfits those 3 days make sure I speak to him, smile and practically flip my hair and bat my lashes asking what he's doing for the weekend laying out what I'll be doing. And still I got nothing more than his big delicious smiles. He's a few years younger than me so at first I thought maybe he doesn't realized I'm flirting with him. Then I thought maybe he's gay. Then I said maybe not interested in me. Which would be crazy because I am awesome. So on Facebook I friend request him because I saw that he is a cousin to a very close friend of my family. He accepts and we chat daily. So after like 3-4 weeks of flirting and friendly chatting I was still no further than polite convo. So I just said screw it and old him that I think he's attractive and asked if he was seeing anyone. He replied thank you and said he was not seeing anyone and didn't have time for a relationship because he is focusing on work and his music. Which I can respect. So I just left it at that because he did not say your attractive too or lets hang out sometime as friends. Just said thanks. Ugh! Men are from mars :-( I'm never flirting with a guy again. Total waist of my time.
on Feb. 16, 2013 at 7:48 AM