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Sperm Donor wants pictures

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Yesterday, a certain piece of shit sperm donor actually decided to text my mom right before we were leaving to go wedding dress and bridesmaid dress shopping with my bridesmaids.

He was saying that he wants pictures of youngest DS and so on. My response was "Uhhhh no, you're not getting pictures of OUR son.... from Melo's Mommy and Step-Daddy!" He got pissed.... then my reply was "Want pictures, contact my Atty." He didn't like that response any better....

He doesn't have any visitiation, custody, etc. He walked out 5 years ago and hasn't had contact in over 2 years and that was to bitch at me about how expensive child support is and begged me to drop child support. 

***Edit for clarification on why I won't send the picture/s***

I've explained it in a couple of the replies... but I keep getting people who are saying to send him one..... He's threatened at least once that he was going to kidnap my son and that I was never going to see him again. My son doesn't want him to know what he looks like because he fears that he'll actually kidnap him. He remembers the conversation/arguement and it was said infront of the police. There was domestic violence in our relationship (court papers filed, convicted of "domestic dispute" because my son at 2 yrs old wanted his "Papi" at his birthday so I dropped charges) but now, my son wants nothing to do with him because after that situation, my ex proceeded to put me in the Psych ward (I admitted myself) because of all the mind games he played with me and my boys. My kids hear his name and they quiet and get scared that he's around or they will start acting out.

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by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 8:46 AM
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by Bronze Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 8:39 PM

Your gut feeling says don't  send him a picture, so don't . Maybe things will change in the future but it sounds like it is unsafe for all of you right now.  Good luck.

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