Today would have been our 8th anniversary since our first date...:-(
it's the first significant date since he decided it was over Dec 3rd. But nobody knows yet(we are still living together right now till I find work...) so I have to go on pretending all is normal...
Once the kids are in bed all bets are off... It's going to be me, a bottle of wine, chocolate and a sappy movie....:-(
it's the first significant date since he decided it was over Dec 3rd. But nobody knows yet(we are still living together right now till I find work...) so I have to go on pretending all is normal...
Once the kids are in bed all bets are off... It's going to be me, a bottle of wine, chocolate and a sappy movie....:-(
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on Feb. 17, 2013 at 12:19 PM
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In the worse case scenario that last sentence sounds awesome. Enjoy.
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on Feb. 17, 2013 at 3:09 PM
I am holding back mainly because my son who is 7...the younger ones(2 & 5mo) won't understand yet...
I just don't know how to tell him.... I'm have been debating every weekend whether to tell him or not... I'm considering maybe tomorrow because he is off for 2 more days from school and stbxh will be home from work.... I just don't know how to bring it up....
I just don't know how to tell him.... I'm have been debating every weekend whether to tell him or not... I'm considering maybe tomorrow because he is off for 2 more days from school and stbxh will be home from work.... I just don't know how to bring it up....
Quoting MomAmy77:
Im sorry. Pretending is hard . I had to do that as well but finally gave up that lie and Im finally divorced . Life is to short. Um here for you if you need to talk, vent , or just cry. Huggs
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on Feb. 17, 2013 at 3:11 PM
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I'm sorry. I hope you are able to make the most of your day even if it is stirring the emotions.
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First you have to be honest with yourself and decide what you want and need. Yours are just as important as his. It's not easy. Everyday I wake up with the struggle on what my kids and u go and went through. I once heard kids rather be from a broken home then in one.its the hardest thing you have to do and one with thought . Hugh and we as a group are here
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on Feb. 17, 2013 at 4:46 PM
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The first anniversaries are the hardest. I think your plan for the night sounds like a good one.
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didn't see this coming
- blueeyedpixie
on Feb. 17, 2013 at 12:14 PM