I was cleaning my fiance's car and found a bangle buried in one of the compartment on the passenger side of the car. He told me it belonged to one the girl he's doing business with when asked. After much probing, he also admitted they hooked up once. He called this woman one day when I was in the car with him to tell her that his 'friend' found her bangle in his car & would like to arrange a meeting so he could return it. I sensed hesitency in his voice to say fiance hence the mentioning of 'friend' came into place.
I felt really hurt. It's like there's something he's not telling me entirely. I'm very doubtful of him now and I do not like him associating with this woman. Would I be completely out of line to tell him to not prolong any kinds of business association with her, the fact that they used to something going on back then?
Hi and welcome to the group.
If he's calling you friend and not fiance, run, run as fast as you can. No need for an explanation to him, unless he asks for it.
Hello, I am a new member as well.
I am not much of an advice expert in relationships, being that I am 17, but there is no way that I would put up with him calling you a "friend" and not his fiance. Tell him exactly how you feel and what you think. And he's trying to set up a meeting with her to return a bangle? Seriously? That is not right at all.
You are his fiance. He should be proud to tell anyone that. He sounds like a cheater to me so why are you still with this guy? Give him back the ring and call it a day.
ummm, yea. No way I would put up with that. Your his fiance, he needs to tell her that your his fiance.
and he needs to not have more to do with her then he has to (if they work together) or be finding a diff job.
um. it could not be more plain than if he told you or you saw it really. you are his "friend" ? nuh uh.
Thank you all for your 2 cents of worth in this matter. I really appreciate your honesty & feel better knowing that I'm not alone. Cheers peeps!!
you dont not need to be with someone like that. No matter how much you think you two are meant to be or whatever the case be you deserve someone better thats just a dick move sounds like a deusche bag!
Finally tears of happiness.
- Ladyfeb
on Feb. 18, 2013 at 5:46 PM