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My brother has never had a girlfriend.....

Posted by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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Yes, you read that correct. I am very close to my twin brother, as a matter of fact, we grew up best friends. This is why I  am so concerned. He's 22 years old, almost 23, and still never had a girlfriend, and I'm sure he is a virgin(Which is a good thing), but I'm worried he  may never get married. I'm pretty sure he isn't gay,  because he has asked many girls  out, he is sadly rejected every time. He has been on one date his whole life and the girl gave him the dreaded "let's just be friends" message.

Am I worrying too much? Or should I be concerned? He is a great guy and it's sad to see him in this situation. 

by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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merinasmommy
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:42 PM
lol if hes nice you can send him to me.....but really i think you are worrying to much but maybe try to help him find someone?
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merinasmommy
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:44 PM
also would you rather him be this way or a man whore with 8 kids by 8 girls while dating 5 others?im 22 next week and ive been married and going threw divorce i wish i had waited before ever getting involved with a guy it messed my life up pretty good only good things i got out of it are my kids
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OhioforMal
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:47 PM



Quoting merinasmommy:

also would you rather him be this way or a man whore with 8 kids by 8 girls while dating 5 others?im 22 next week and ive been married and going threw divorce i wish i had waited before ever getting involved with a guy it messed my life up pretty good only good things i got out of it are my kids


You  make some good points. In a way, it's better he avoided getting a girl pregnant. I just don't know why girls don't like him.

merinasmommy
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:49 PM
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in all reality most girls our age(at least around here) only want dick heads so he is probably the nice guy that noone realises is what is best until its to late if that makes sense


Quoting OhioforMal:




Quoting merinasmommy:

also would you rather him be this way or a man whore with 8 kids by 8 girls while dating 5 others?im 22 next week and ive been married and going threw divorce i wish i had waited before ever getting involved with a guy it messed my life up pretty good only good things i got out of it are my kids




You  make some good points. In a way, it's better he avoided getting a girl pregnant. I just don't know why girls don't like him.


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OhioforMal
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:53 PM



Quoting merinasmommy:

in all reality most girls our age(at least around here) only want dick heads so he is probably the nice guy that noone realises is what is best until its to late if that makes sense


Quoting OhioforMal:




Quoting merinasmommy:

also would you rather him be this way or a man whore with 8 kids by 8 girls while dating 5 others?im 22 next week and ive been married and going threw divorce i wish i had waited before ever getting involved with a guy it messed my life up pretty good only good things i got out of it are my kids




You  make some good points. In a way, it's better he avoided getting a girl pregnant. I just don't know why girls don't like him.


Well, as far as being nice goes, he is kindhearted at times. I will say he has a cocky attitude, but like you said, girls go for these assholes anyway(I don't consider him an asshole, he can be quite arrogant at times though.)


merinasmommy
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:59 PM
lol there you go haha tell him to act like an asshole.smack a few girls around get girls pregnant and dont help...THEN he will have girls lining up......i really hope you know im kidding lol.eventually the girls will realise what a good guy is and he will find someone who will be good to him


Quoting OhioforMal:




Quoting merinasmommy:

in all reality most girls our age(at least around here) only want dick heads so he is probably the nice guy that noone realises is what is best until its to late if that makes sense





Quoting OhioforMal:





Quoting merinasmommy:

also would you rather him be this way or a man whore with 8 kids by 8 girls while dating 5 others?im 22 next week and ive been married and going threw divorce i wish i had waited before ever getting involved with a guy it messed my life up pretty good only good things i got out of it are my kids






You  make some good points. In a way, it's better he avoided getting a girl pregnant. I just don't know why girls don't like him.



Well, as far as being nice goes, he is kindhearted at times. I will say he has a cocky attitude, but like you said, girls go for these assholes anyway(I don't consider him an asshole, he can be quite arrogant at times though.)




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youllneverknow
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 12:01 AM
Pics or it aint true lol
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OhioforMal
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 12:03 AM


Quoting youllneverknow:

Pics or it aint true lol

Here is a picture, but it is true. I know he's my brother, so it may seem odd to judge him, but I don't find him a bad looking guy. 



Cenedra64
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 12:07 AM
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Lol...the last two men i loved and the one i was married to were both virgins. I seem to have a knack for finding them. Hope your bro finds the right girl
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conniejo75
by Bronze Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 12:10 AM
You're worrying too much.
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