My ex has been seeing the same girl for a year now so there engaged. Ive been begging him since theyve been dating to go grab a coffee and get to know eachother. Hes very reluctant I feel since shes going to be my sons step mom she should get to know the mother just in case anything were to happen to me and that we can be on the same page as far as parenting goes. Hes still reluctant I wonder if he has something to hide like he says rotten things about me. My son is almost 18 months and he needs to have stability instead of trying to figure out things and be confused. I just dont get it.