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newly single as of 1 hour ago

Posted by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 7:10 PM
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My bf decided he no longer wanted to be with me. He bought me a ticket back to my moms. He said he'd help with my baby with him but idk what to do. I have nothing literally no car no money no job or clothes except the ones on my back. Please can I get some hope and help. Things I need to do, how to do. I'd be thankful my head hurts so bad from fighting the tears I don't want my baby to feel what mommy does :(
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Jessicamarquez
by New Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 7:10 PM
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Jessicamarquez
by New Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 7:10 PM
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by New Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 7:10 PM
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Tiffywall86
by New Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 7:42 PM
I am so sorry you are going through this . Hugs
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mytrueloveS
by Lori on Mar. 3, 2013 at 9:52 PM

 I suggest you get food stamps for now and family to help.  once your baby is born look for a job.  It's hard especially being single, but the help you can get from family is the best; makes things much easier.  

BeachMommy07
by on Mar. 3, 2013 at 10:12 PM

How old are you? Were you and the BF living together? If it's only been an hour-any hope of reconcilation? I know I totally spelt that word wrong!

LifeCafe42
by Nora on Mar. 3, 2013 at 11:18 PM
Welcome to the group I'm sorry you are going through this stay strong!
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Lurion
by Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 11:22 PM

Sorry! 

You mean he will help support HIS child, right?! 

1. Take the ticket. Go to your moms and be thankful that she'll take you in. 

2. Don't take him back, don't bring drama into your life, your baby's life, your mom's life. Make a stable happy home for your baby. 

3. File for child support and take him up on his offer to help. 

4. Have a good, long cry!!!

You can and will make it. One day at a time. How old is your baby?

mama.samm.2.3
by Member on Mar. 3, 2013 at 11:36 PM
It's ok to cry hun! It is actually worse to keep it bottled up inside. Will your mom take you in? Just take it slow. Give yourself some time to hurt. Because thses things DO hurt and thats ok. ((HUGS))
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themrsrick
by Member on Mar. 4, 2013 at 7:02 AM
I am going through something very similar but I am further down the road. Message me if you want to chat. I have my life and some ideas at www.4mychildbyhisgrace.blogspot.com.
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