I thought I could be civil and work around my ex's schedule so he can see his son. All I have asked of him is to let me know a time to pick him up and drop him off. He's never done it and I've let it pass; for my son's sake. I've had enough, it's 8:10 and my son is not home yet. He needs to get bathed and put to sleep early; he has school. I asked ex to bathe him and the fucker won't do it. I'm starting to see this as being disrespectful towards me. Every time I nag at him about the hour and letting me know at what time he plans to drop off my son, he gets all butt hurt and starts threatening me. I can't do it anymore, back to the visitation order. He's not getting his way anymore.