Back to visitation order

[mytrueloveS]

I thought I could be civil and work around my ex's schedule so he can see his son.  All I have asked of him is to let me know a time to pick him up and drop him off.  He's never done it and I've let it pass; for my son's sake.  I've had enough, it's 8:10 and my son is not home yet.  He needs to get bathed and put to sleep early; he has school.  I asked ex to bathe him and the fucker won't do it.  I'm starting to see this as being disrespectful towards me.  Every time I nag at him about the hour and letting me know at what time he plans to drop off my son, he gets all butt hurt and starts threatening me.  I can't do it anymore, back to the visitation order.  He's not getting his way anymore.  

[kitty8199]

Good. Not your job to make it easier for him. I'd do the same.

[sid1083]

 Hey, you tried. If he can't show some respect back your way, it's not necessary to keep accomodating him and his rudeness.

[breebree04]

you were being mature and trying to work with him, if he cant do the same then his loss. I dont blame you at all for going back to the visitation order.

[jalikym]

It is best for your son.  It will keep him on the routine that you have set for him which will aid him in school.  Glad you are making a stand.  If he keeps getting threatening, take the next steps. 

[faerie75]

 the first tiome he tried to open his mouth and threaten me, wed go back to the CO. good for you!

[IvoryIris]

Does he even want to see his kid? Sounds like your son is a big burden on him

[mytrueloveS]

I wonder the same thing. He sees him 4 times out of the month. He will even pick him up late during the day because he had "chores." He says yes, but I think he doesn't want to be around.

Quoting IvoryIris:

Does he even want to see his kid? Sounds like your son is a big burden on him

[Andrewsmom70]

And keep in mind that he'll probably gladly blame you for keeping his son from him and he'll tell anyone who will listen.