So STBX is behind on child support and wants me to drop it all together. We have been separated for 2.5 years and Iam in the process of filing for divorce. I got a support order shortly after we separated. Ex is behind, works inconsistently and has just had his DL suspended for non-payment. He wants to pay us on his own. Would you guys even consider this? At this point, I am tired of even dealing with this. He pays when he is working but hasn't had a permanent job since we split. He is currently substitute teaching. I am afraid that the DL suspension and possible jail time is not going to help at all. He won't be able to see the kids and it will just hurt them more. Am I going to have to just deal with him paying whenever he gets money?