Hello, I'm Simona, and I'm new to the group. I have one little girl and she is almost 5. Let me give a quick run down of what has been going on in the past year or so so that hopefully someone can give me a little advice on what I can/should do.
My daughter's dad and I have not been together for 3 years, I and my daughter live in CA and he in tx. For the first 2 years that we hadn't been together he was not in her life. we have since put a parenting plan in place and she goes to visit him every other month for 2 weeks. She has only gone twice, in december and february, to visit him.The first time she came back from visiting him she came home with a black eye. She said her dad hit her, he said they were wrestling. So whether it was intentional or not, I dont know. When she came home this last time from being over there she told me that her dads girlfriend and he were smoking in the car with her and that his gf was lighting the lighter to her car seat while she was sitting in it. Smoking in the car with a minor is illegal in CA but not in tx, but you'd think that he was be a little more considerate to his daughter's health. I know I can't do anything about that but does any one know if I can report the whole lighter to her carseat thing to anyone? PLEASE HELP!!!