I'm a 21 single mother my son is 9months, im going to tell you about the father first. We dated I was 19 he was 27, we dated for 5 months he cheated on me for 3 months. I knew about it and stuck around. The last time the girl threatened me because he told her he was single and then I had answered his phone for him and it was her... anyways so I left him. The I went to a friends and stuff happened and he found out and was pissed because i guess he thought we were still together.... so i actually said we are done. I got another boyfriend and things lasted almost 2 months we broke up and I found out I was pregnant. Which was Nov. I went and got checked I was 9 weeks pregnant... Meaning I got pregnant in Aug. when I was with my boyfriend before.... so throughout the whole pregnancy my ex convinced himself that he couldnt get anyone pregnant and that my kid couldnt be his. He tried to get me to go back to him..but I told him I didnt love him and I'm not getting back with him just becuase ofa child. I think that, that is hurtful to a child to have to live in a home where youre parents dont love eachother, I grew up like that and it sucked. so it hits may. Im due the 7th but didnt have him until the 12th, i tried to text and call him to tell him that I had our child. he texted me the next day with a new number. so we talked for a few days. then all of a sudden, his new girlfriend that tells me to stop texting him. and I so i quit texting because I dont like drama. so then they both keep texting saying that they were going to get cusody of my son. she had 2 kids, he has a 1bedroom apartment and a crap job. well now my son is 9 months almost 10 months and his fathers never seen him. hasnt even asked about him.. and just had a baby. my son and his half brother are 9 months apart.. and ive tried to get him to want to see his son.. but his now wife wont let him. and ive told him.. dont worry about youre first son, because now you have "the son you always wanted" (wifes words) and he needs you more then your other son..but it brakes my heart knowing my sons not good enough for a father.
so sorry for the long post..but I really have no one to talk to..ive lost all my friends because when i became pregnant i quit smoking pot, drinking and smoking..so im not cool enough. oh well..