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OMG! 42 messages in one day!

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This man wil not stop! He sent 42  messages to my MOTHER yesterda, 16 to my Stepdad, and 3 to me, including random pics of himself in a marathon and in his underwear. Also some of a certificate he received online. WHO THE F*** CARES! I just want this man to leave me alone! I can't wait to go to court so all of this can stop;. I 'haven't even had my baby yet. We both have lawyers and he knows we're going in for a custody battle but he insists on sending these messages. The messages dont even make sense. They are the ramblings of a crazy person! I hope when I show the judge the pages and pages of nonsense he will see through the craziness and order him to stop on top of ordering me full custody.

 

***UPDATE: So... I just spoke with my attorney who informed me that me ex can longer afford his attorney. He knows this because my ex's mom emailed my attorney trying to get some info yesterday and he told her that since my ex is represented he can not release any info to my ex or his mom until he has a signed lettter from him stating that he is no longer represented and unless he gets authorization from me. These are the same people that threatened to take my child, claimed to have all this money, threatened to take our house away, said they were better than me, that they couldn't wait to go to court and see me waste thousands and thousands of dollars! I literally spent the first 4 months of my pregnancy having breakdowns! That is one reason to explain these messages. Because I did what I thought was fair on my part and ceased all communication on my end, gave their lawyer the name I chose - that was it, the rest, we would have to go to court for (paternity, custody). I found it interesting because in a few of the messages the mom has sent me, along with her daughter are that they need my daughter's information because they want to set up a trust fund for her. I didn't buy that for a second. A trust fund? They can't even afford an attorney. I knew they were playing games because that is how this sick family works. In CA you can't file the paperwork unless you have the child's name and birthdate. I don't even have her birthdate because she hasn't been born yet! But I do have my paperwork filled out and ready to be filed at my lawyer's office.

by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 9:49 AM
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dom3269
by Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:32 PM

 Monday! So excited :-) Yes, her namé's Alina


Quoting SexyDiva19:

Sounds like my ex. Crazy as hell lol Wishing you the best of luck. When are you due? Got a name yet?


 

dom3269
by Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:33 PM

 Yea....I just hope the judge sees it and awards me full custody once I show him evidence

Quoting Robsessed98:

Sounds to me like he's either mentally off or he's trippin or tweakin. I know a couple of methheads who ramble on and on about some weird shit after they've been up smoking a few days. Idk but he's got some kind of issue the judge needs to know about.


 

mrsary
by Silver Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:35 PM
Tell him to stop calling.
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SexyDiva19
by Alexis on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:48 PM
Yay! Despite the drama i know you must be so excited! Pretty name :) My ex called me 30 times in one day as well as left multiple texts and voicemail, called and cussed me out as well. I let it roll off my back but then again I've been dealing with him for 8 yrs. Document, Record and Save everything.

Quoting dom3269:

 Monday! So excited :-) Yes, her namé's Alina




Quoting SexyDiva19:

Sounds like my ex. Crazy as hell lol Wishing you the best of luck. When are you due? Got a name yet?



 

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dom3269
by Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:51 PM
Thank u!!!! What was the outcome of ur situation? Did the judge.rule.in ur favor?.

I also have evidence that hes currently doing gay porn (soooooo gross) and hes been abusive to me in the.past. I literally have pages and pages of his ridiculous rants. Do u think I have a good chance of getting full.custody?


Quoting SexyDiva19:

Yay! Despite the drama i know you must be so excited! Pretty name :) My ex called me 30 times in one day as well as left multiple texts and voicemail, called and cussed me out as well. I let it roll off my back but then again I've been dealing with him for 8 yrs. Document, Record and Save everything.



Quoting dom3269:

 Monday! So excited :-) Yes, her namé's Alina






Quoting SexyDiva19:

Sounds like my ex. Crazy as hell lol Wishing you the best of luck. When are you due? Got a name yet?





 


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stillstandin246
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 11:25 AM
I went through the same thing with lots of texts from my ex. I often woke up in the morning to 42 and they would continue rapid-fire throughout the day. Its stalking and u never know what kind of craziiness they will contain. Mine were lots of threats and nastiness. We went to court and I really didn't have to say a word, my ex said it all and the judge saw it clearly. Then I changed my number. Good luck and stay strong.
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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Mar. 9, 2013 at 2:20 PM
Wow yikes hold tight until you go to court more to use against him
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proudmother5946
by Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 2:24 PM
My ex sent a rambling letter to my lawyer. Going on and on about how Hawaii was a horrible place to live, full of crime because it's a tourist trap etc. He also refused visitation, stared that our daughter would understand about him not calling her. That "she's just a little girl and that one day she would understand that her dad loved her very much and she would understand about the phone calls" and "that she didn't deserve to be put in the middle". He was the one crying to her about having to pay CS.
He also told me that she was going to get pregnant and have a "salt and pepper baby". She was 12 when he said this.
Even his own mother thought that he should not have written that response to the lawyer.
The judge read everything and gave me sole legal custody, primary physical, he gets
visitation once a year, unsupervised is at my discretion.
It sounds like you have a lot more on your ex then I had on mine. Good luck.
I love your baby name!
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