My ex has seen my son. Last time he saw him was on my sons bday in January. He wants to take my son our alone and he knows I don't allow that. It may sound wrong but my son is 8 yrs old and has never spent a day alone with him not even an hour. The most alone time would be about 5 minutes if we are all out and I have to use the bathroom.
He called a couple of hours ago and wants to go out tomorrow. He wants to go out alone with my son and since I said no, I have to figure out where to go on a low budget lol I'm thinking maybe the park?
I hate that I have to question his motives when it comes to my son. Every time he calls or comes around I find myself wondering why??
**UPDATE** So I ended up calling him after I got off of work this morning. I work overnights and I get off at 6 in the morning. I didn't feel like dealing with him today so I called him and told him that I had just gotten off at work and today would not be a good day. He said okay and hung up. Not even 5 minutes later he calls back and asks me why I'm telling lies and wanted to know where I worked. I wouldn't/didn't tell him and I hung up. He called back again and we had a huge blowup where we both cussed each other out, he accused me of being a cokehead, a whore who is only out that late to prostitute herself etc. I told him not to call me again unless we were going to court for visitation. I'm tired of dealing with his nonsense.
I mean he is going to be 28 on his bday and I'll be 25 on mine and he is still bringing up things like me flirting with other guys from 7-8 years ago! What I'm worried about is IF we ever went to court would the judge give him visitation/joint custody based on the fact that I have allowed him around my son before even though the restraining orders from 5-7 yrs ago are expired?