I have a 15 month old with my ex. Our relationship was never really good (just two completely different people and he lied to me a lot and cheated on me once that i know of and had a porn addiction) and we finally ended it a couple months ago. I've lived out of state from him for the last two months and he's been a real douche and barely skypes and always has excuses about it but soon we will be in the same state again which I am glad for since it means he will be a regular part of DDs life again. He is a good dad and he pays me cs with no trouble.Well I've been talking to someone who happens to be my ex from when I was 15 (and we have talked throughout the years but just were in different places etc). He's loved me ever since then and he tals about moving to be with me from another state which obvipusly makes it serious in itself anf shed see him being that im a single mom so where i go, she goes.
Well my concern is obviously my ex. He is a very emotional and spiteful person and I just don't know how to tell him. I'm shre he will be angry and not want this new guy in his daughters life and may even throw in my face we haven't been broken up long but our relationship was over ling before that emotionally and physically.I have no intentions of keeping him from his daughter or replacing him in her life or anything.I'm just so stressed out about it. I guess my worst fear is that he will try to take her away from me or something crazy. Who has gone through this? I know there's plenty of people so how did you tell your ex and how did things go?
on Mar. 9, 2013 at 6:50 PM