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Temptation vs self respect!

Posted by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 7:58 AM
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Temptation is a bad thing!
My ex has been trying to talk to me every day an not about our son either. About whether i would like to go over to his place an "hang". I still have feelings for him n i find it hard for me to say no but i don't want him to know that n i don't really like the idea of just being a booty call. :/ I'm afraid that temptation might have the best of me. :/ Don't know how to defeat it....
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LilShamrock
by Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 8:52 AM
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Grab a Hershey's bar and tell him to go practice on a knot of wood!
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Cenedra64
by Bronze Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 8:56 AM
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LOL Love the above reply. I told mine he had Rosie Palm and her five sisters
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virginiamama71
by Carrie on Mar. 14, 2013 at 9:51 AM

Just say NO 

animebuddy
by Platinum Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 11:20 AM
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If he calls and its not about your kid then hang up. Keep convos about the kids only and dont hang out with him or invite him over.
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deltathree
by Gold Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 11:21 AM

 


Quoting LilShamrock:

Grab a Hershey's bar and tell him to go practice on a knot of wood!


 

mumii17
by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 12:02 PM
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So far I've been able to reject him, that saying that im in vulnerable state for companionship. I don't like seeing him in person either when he comes to pick up our son for the day cuz he attempts to caress me n sweet talk....i put up a front an act as tho that won't work on me its just hard i just want him completely out of my heart. For everything he's put me thru.
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LovingMy2x4
by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 1:33 PM
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Just remind yourself that if he wanted to be with you, he wouldnt be "sweet talking" you. He'd be telling you HIS feelings and talking about getting to know each other again and dating and taking things slow. He seems to only want a booty call. Keep telling yourself that he is only going to hurt you. And its not worth it. Good luck to you! I've been there before!!

Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Mar. 14, 2013 at 1:49 PM
Stay strong. Don't set yourself up for the hurt again!
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jenmomx3
by Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 1:57 PM

 Exes are exes for a reason...just saying...

brieri
by Platinum Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 2:21 PM

Not about your child.  Say no and hang up. 

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