Dating is nothing like it was when I was in my twenties. Now it seems that as soon as the spouse moves out, some paperwork is filled out and they announce they are separated and headed to divorce the dating starts. I met this guy and we have really seemed to have hit it off. I'm divorced, he's not (his wife ) lives in another state but is announcing that she's moving back to the same town. He refers to her as his ex and when questioned said that they are staying married for financial reasons and the college funds of the kids. The divorce paperwork would be filed when he decides to get married again. Anyone else find themselves in this kind of dilema?