Finally i agreed to let him come see me......he showed up lasnite after work with his bag in his hand. We stayed up all nite talking. Turns out he's intelligent and built like popeye the sailor man(toot toot lol). He also knows the bible inside and out. He has a job and wants better for himself. He was in prison for drugs. He really is sweet i told him he was nerdy. We have alot in common.....
Never thought i'd say this but i like him. I got up this morning and made us breakfast(he enjoyed it btw) then after my daughter came home from her dads i made dinner he ate with us(he likes my daughter ) hugged me and left for work.
I told him he's welcome here anytime just call ahead and make sure we're home. He says he likes me but isn't ready for a serious relationship because he just got out(understandable).
He's 6ft 3 and 240 and it's pure muscle.