Finally i agreed to let him come see me......he showed up lasnite after work with his bag in his hand. We stayed up all nite talking. Turns out he's intelligent and built like popeye the sailor man(toot toot lol). He also knows the bible inside and out. He has a job and wants better for himself. He was in prison for drugs. He really is sweet i told him he was nerdy. We have alot in common.....
Never thought i'd say this but i like him. I got up this morning and made us breakfast(he enjoyed it btw) then after my daughter came home from her dads i made dinner he ate with us(he likes my daughter ) hugged me and left for work.
I told him he's welcome here anytime just call ahead and make sure we're home. He says he likes me but isn't ready for a serious relationship because he just got out(understandable).
He's 6ft 3 and 240 and it's pure muscle.
Sounds like he's changed his ways and has many good qualities, but I think it would be wise to get to know him better before welcoming him freely, especially given his size. Be safe =)
People do change, and its good he got a job and is moving forward with his life but I would not bring a man into my home that I just recently met, whether I lived alone, with a roomie and especially with my child who happen to become too attached easily.
If you choose to continue seeing him see how long he holds this job, cause at my job we have clients, who have gotten jobs after getting out of jaill, than after a few months lose that job, cause the background check came back.
I hope this is not going to be his case, and he went thru the felony program that helps felons to get jobs, and he continues to be a productive citizen and becomes a success after learning so much from his past mistakes.
good luck keep you and your child safe and be cautious
Quoting virginiamama71:People do change, and its good he got a job and is moving forward with his life but I would not bring a man into my home that I just recently met, whether I lived alone, with a roomie and especially with my child who happen to become too attached easily.
If you choose to continue seeing him see how long he holds this job, cause at my job we have clients, who have gotten jobs after getting out of jaill, than after a few months lose that job, cause the background check came back.
I hope this is not going to be his case, and he went thru the felony program that helps felons to get jobs, and he continues to be a productive citizen and becomes a success after learning so much from his past mistakes.
I think he's changed for the better honestly he seems like he's never been in trouble except for all his muscle you can't tell he's been in trouble til he talks about it.
We're just friends nothing farther......as far as the other stuff with my daughter goes he's met her once on the bus......
Quoting virginiamama71:People do change, and its good he got a job and is moving forward with his life but I would not bring a man into my home that I just recently met, whether I lived alone, with a roomie and especially with my child who happen to become too attached easily.
If you choose to continue seeing him see how long he holds this job, cause at my job we have clients, who have gotten jobs after getting out of jaill, than after a few months lose that job, cause the background check came back.
I hope this is not going to be his case, and he went thru the felony program that helps felons to get jobs, and he continues to be a productive citizen and becomes a success after learning so much from his past mistakes.
As far as him staying the nite and me feeding him food goes i'm not going to allow someone to go hungry while i eat in front of him and he crashed on my couch, where was he supposed to sleep outside in the dumpsters?
I believe in treat a person how you want to be treated because karma will come back on you.
Quoting mrsary:
You already seem to have feelings for him & he made it clear he is playing around right now. Back away quickly!
He's already told me management knows his situation obviously they had to do a background check before they hired him at least thats how they do things here.
Quoting virginiamama71:People do change, and its good he got a job and is moving forward with his life but I would not bring a man into my home that I just recently met, whether I lived alone, with a roomie and especially with my child who happen to become too attached easily.
If you choose to continue seeing him see how long he holds this job, cause at my job we have clients, who have gotten jobs after getting out of jaill, than after a few months lose that job, cause the background check came back.
I hope this is not going to be his case, and he went thru the felony program that helps felons to get jobs, and he continues to be a productive citizen and becomes a success after learning so much from his past mistakes.
Quoting mommy_2_be_2010:
No i'm not looking to jump right into a relationship just yet either. We both agreed to be friends. Just because we have alot in common doesn't mean i want a relationship with him.
As far as him staying the nite and me feeding him food goes i'm not going to allow someone to go hungry while i eat in front of him and he crashed on my couch, where was he supposed to sleep outside in the dumpsters?
I believe in treat a person how you want to be treated because karma will come back on you.
Quoting mrsary:
You already seem to have feelings for him & he made it clear he is playing around right now. Back away quickly!
prayers for all involved..
- mommy_2_be_2010
on Mar. 17, 2013 at 8:05 PM