Tonight turned into a nightmare sorry for being long. My ex changed jobs and work # I have been asking the new # for weeks and he has excuses everytime. I got tired of dealing and making plans with his wife not him and then theres conflict at times. I told him several times I had kids with you not her I decide things with you. Well he calls me tonight asking if were still on for friday I said yes and asked again for his # he doesn't give it to me and I said ok I have few things to talk about then I told him how it was wrong to take my daughter to the doctor with out my permission and have her vaccinated 4 shots again when she just had the same shots months before, why not call and ask me, he went belastic and cussing me out excuse my language telling me horseshit and hanging up. I call him and tell him calmly please stop doing things to my kids behind my back, and he keeps yelling, then I went telling him I'm not comfortable how my son calls his wife mommy and she says nothing to correct him, he callsme b.., fu... there is other kids in the house so they hear them calling her mommy, I tell him I understand and there little but old enough that you can teach them and correct them if you don't they won't learn. He kept cussing me and hanged. I texted him and said how dare you disrespect the mother of you or children and do something like that and let them see theirm mom so hurt, what kind of men are you. I'm 26 and your going 34 grow up and take responsibility. He kept calling and calling I finally answered and said I'm done of you walking on me and taking adavantage of me. When you came back in their life I moved back so you see them more often, I let you have them anytime is this the thanks I get. I told him being that he was disrespectful you won't get the kids. You can meet me once a week for two hours or do a overnight and that is it, he refused doesn't have the money for that drive. I have full sole custody he has no rights or visitations, so I decided no visitation and will go to court am tired of the drama and hurt. Am so proud of myself for stading up to him and taking control.