So, as I have posted before, my ex decided to have an affair and leave our marriage, instead of leaving on a better term. I am still in "recovery", so I am still going through all the phases. My ex and his affair partner, girlfriend, have been in their relationship for about 18 months; like I said I am still in recovery so I have a lot of hurt and anger still that I am processing. Well today he asked if I could take the kids (his night) because his girlfriend is in the hospital with a serious infection........... I am by nature a person, that feels bad for everyone that is in pain either emotionally or physically. But when my ex was telling me, as tears were streaming down his face, I didn't care. I have no compassion for this person at all, neither her nor him. I feel bad that I didn't feel bad. So messed up. I am clearly not over it, because if I was, I would feel compassion. I just wish I was over it already. My therapist said it takes 2 years after the divorce to feel "normal" again, so if that's true, I am 2 months in 22 to go................crap.