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Posted by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:27 PM
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A man with 4 kids from a previous relationship??
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ms-superwoman
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:32 PM
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No, I have never dated a man with kids.

Aubs1990
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:34 PM
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No, I would never date a man with 1.

virginiamama71
by Carrie on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:35 PM
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 If he is involved in their lives and doing his duty as a father, than I may consider, but would prefer someone like myself with just one child.

sarahmiamaria
by Bronze Member on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:36 PM
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Why not? You can have previous kids but they can't? Not judging just curious


Quoting Aubs1990:No, I would never date a man with 1.
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Two_Hearts
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:38 PM
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Yes i would. 

I have never gotten the concept of passing judgement that someone wasn't good enough for you , just because they have had a past..

ImaSoulMom
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:42 PM
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Nope. I need to focus on my kids. Four kids plus mine would be six. Besides, if he made that many kids I would hope they would be a priority and a lot of his time should be spent being a father. If he did not spend a lot of time and money with/for his kids that would make me think less of him as a father and man. Either way, No.
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singlemama0905
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:46 PM
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a lot of factora go into it...not the number at all but how involved he is in their lives and how many mom's among those 4 kids. one.. maybe 2 mom's...so long as extremely involved in both, I wouldn't stop me.
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jessi2girls
by Member on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:51 PM
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all from the same mother? maybe... I'd REALLY have to like him though and like all of his children... and with his 4 and my 2, that might be difficult! lol. I'm honestly not sure I could handle it, but it's one of those, I'm not going to say it won't EVER happen.. but it likely wouldn't work out.

From different women? That's a train wreck that I'm not stepping onto.. bye bye mr.. lol.

SnapIt
by Member on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:52 PM
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How he is raising those kids of his is the main factor.
Spending time, paying his CS

You cant be selfish if you have kids of your own to judge him based on him having 4 kids or that you come first or your kids are more important than his.

Its a personal choice of course, but it depends on why hes divorced too.

Never say never too. You may fall for the guy deeply before getting into the nitty gritty with the kids.
Life isnt fair or easy
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conniejo75
by Bronze Member on Mar. 24, 2013 at 4:54 PM
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No. I have only dated men without kids. I have enough drama with BD.... I wouldn't want BM drama too.
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