hello everyone. im new to this group. i have a story to tell. me and my bf thought we were pregnant so i took a test and i was. we both decided that we werent going to keep it. even before i even got pregnant we talked about it. we both had alot going on with school and working all day. we set up an appointment. the day of he didnt call me, i was waiting for his call but we didnt talk until the afternoon. it kind of seemed like he wanted me to be pregnant he didnt really try you know?...but then one day i was thinking and my whole decision changed. i grew up in a christian home and i just couldnt do it. i decided to keep the baby. i finally got my first sono and i showed him. i was about 4 5 months. after that day he stopped answering his phone for 2weeks. and then we slowely started to seperate. we are not together anymore. and the only time he answers his phone is when i ask him about anything else besides the baby. hes still in denial. hes still mad at me for not thinking about his decision when i did. and i didnt want that. ill text him questions about the baby and he doesnt answer at all but if its about his job or other stuff he will. he has a daughter and a son with his previous relationship. i just dont freakin understand why he cant get over my decision to keep the baby. i know its alot for him but its also alot for me. i dont know what else to do. and he onyl calls when hes drunk. he says he wants to be a part of the childs life but idk ill just have to wait and see if he will be here for the baby when she gets here. im due may5. have any advice on why he might be acting this way.