I feel like I'm having a hard time fitting in with my single girlfriends now that I am no longer married. I am dating/have a boyfriend but I do like to get together with girlfriends every now and then. That is something I neglected big time when I was married so I am making it a goal to do better in this area.
My good girlfriend likes to attend happy hour at a local bar/club every Friday. Whenever I am available, this is what she does/suggests. I have went a few times but it's not really my scene. She also will suggest the local clubbin' type events that happen in our city, i.e. radio station anniversary parties, local promoter parties, etc. I don't mind a good dance at the club maybe once or twice a year, but the free days I get with her or a few other of my friends I don't want to spend in the club.
Do I just forgo this time with them, insist on other events or try and find new friends?