do you have with your child's father?
I am friends with my daughter's father although he can usually be a very insensitive snot about everything. I am the fulltime caregiver for our child and he "visits" her maybe once or twice a week at my request.
A weird one. I don't think he's a bad guy. He has good points. But he doesn't care to see my son. He hasn't bothered to visit him since I think August, and he only lives a couple hours away. I don't know if he just doesn't care about my son at all or just can't be responsible enough to pick up the phone more than once every 6 months. But, we're probably going to clash the next time he wants to take him overnight because my son has told me he does not want to spend the night at his house. It's like going to a stranger's house for him.
I don't have a relationship with my daughter's father. He pays child support but he hasn't seen her since she was two (she's almost five now), and that was by chance. His loss.
We have an amazing relationship, he's my best friend and we love each other very much. We got together when we were really young (I was 14, he was 17) and there was so much that went on during our relationship that things were toxic by the time we broke up. Now it's been four years and we get along really well. A big part of it is what/who he does is not my problem which makes dealing with him so much better.
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