Hello Everyone, I am a single Mom and I'm forced to take my Kids father to Child Support. The court first ordered him to $80.00 bi-weekly for my first 2 children. After my littlest one was born, I added him on to the case. Now because he has a way better paying job, he is now ordered to pay $435.00 bi-weekly. Because he throw a temper tantrum in court. The judge lowered it to $350.00 bi-weekly. He was so upset that he keeps trashing me in court and while we are outside of the courtroom waiting for paperwork. He keeps insulting me and embarrasing me in front off all to see. The good thing about all of this is that ,I am of coarse happy with the results of the case. However, the judge ordered us to go back in February, I believe its because she is concerned for him and wants to see how hes getting along, since he said, He might as well quit his job and go on welfare. What would you do in this case? The judge is obviously going to order the support to be lowered again in February, since he knows how to manipulate in such a smooth way. He keeps insulting me. Anywhere and everywhere we are and it makes me feel so aweful. I'm finally starting to feel better about myself and he is just keeping me down emotionally. I wish I never had to see or speak to him ever again. But with 3 children how can that be possible. HELP!!!!!!
on Dec. 18, 2007 at 2:48 PM