I am the single mother of a precious 2 year old (3 in july) and I have another baby boy on the way due in July! I am really having a difficult time with life in general! I am looking for anyone who has been in my shoes! My sons have the same father who is a p.o.s! He is currently incarcerated and I have come to find out a full blown drug addict! I have never used or experimented with drugs therefore i dont know how that sort of life style is! However, I left this a*hole two years ago and he went to jail and got out in october, stupid me felt like maybe his 18 months in jail changed him BOY was I wrong. I am now finding myself in the same situation as before! He missed my son's birth due to incarceration and has only spend a total of may 3 months with him! Now I will be giving birth to my baby boy #2 by myself and going through that whole ordeal alone! I don't have him on child support or anything because I really don't want him having any ties to my kids! Has anyone had to deal with this and is their any advice on how to be a single mother of two with little help from anyone! I know its going to be a struggle but is it wrong that I am now trying to keep my sons father away from them?