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It's not fair

Posted by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:34 AM
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All I want to do is sleep and I can't..

I lay down and my mind starts replaying everything that's happened and I get so mad I can't sleep then I usually end up in tears and by the time I finally get calmed down enough to get some sleep my kids are waking up...

i hate this is where my life is but I have my kids and there's nothing better then them... I just wish I could sleep! 


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cebmommy
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 6:56 AM
I'm having the same problem. I wake up in the middle of the night so angry, and so upset I want to scream. I am furious at the injustice that has been dealt to me. Things are soooo not fair!

So I let myself cry. I imagine the way things should have gone, e.g., the judge should have seen what a lying dirt bag my ex is and ruled more in my favor. Then I let myself fantasize things like my ex driving off a cliff or lying on the ground dying of thirst and me holding a glass of water that would save his life, and dumping the water on the ground in front of him. I get creative and have fun with this.

Then, I think about all the things in DO have, first and foremost my amazing, wonderful daughters. My health, a job, friends and family, and a future that lies ahead of me that is mine for the making. And then i fall back to sleep.

I realize it is going to take a long time to get over these feelings, but I believe I will. As hard as it is to imagine, good will prevail in your life. It will take time, but we will feel better. Hang in there!
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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Apr. 7, 2013 at 3:17 PM
I have to have tv or music to fall asleep or I think too much
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Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Apr. 7, 2013 at 11:23 PM

*HUGS*

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