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Single mom - Boyfriend's not the father.

Posted by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 3:31 PM
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I am worried about a lot of things. The one thing I am worried about the most is how I am going to cope living alone with my newborn and how my boyfriend who is not dad is going to feel about the whole situation. I know I can't predict anything but anybody have any advice?

by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 3:31 PM
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Andrewsmom70
by Silver Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 3:55 PM
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No need to spend time worrying about things you can't control. Either bf sticks around or he doesn't. You'll find out soon enough what sort of man he is.
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Oliviasmom72
by Silver Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 4:48 PM
Yes. You don't need a boyfriend. Your newborn is more important than a guy. You don't live with this guy do you ?
Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Apr. 7, 2013 at 11:14 PM

Have you guys talked about it at all?

yellownes8
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 11:23 PM
I live alone with my 11 month old, 2 year old and 3 year old. It isn't easy but you find a way to make it work. As far as your boyfriend goes, if he isn't okay with the situation then tell him to get lost.
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motherhood is not a race..u can't outdo one another..u go go ur own speed.
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by Platinum Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 11:26 PM
I WOULD JUST WORRY ABOUT THE CHILD FOR WILE ..MEN CAN WAIT.
breebree04
by on Apr. 8, 2013 at 2:05 PM

Everything will work out one way or another, you'll see. Dont stress over yet. If your bf cant handle having the baby around then he wasnt the right one. Better to find out now then later. Once you have the baby, your maternal instincts will kick in and you will do fine.

Misha1204
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 7:30 AM
You do what you have to do. Handle your business w/you & your baby. If you're worried about you boyfriend then you should get rid of him. Men come & go.
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