I'm new here and in desperate need of some words of encouragement or advice. In a nutshell, I am going through the divorce process and my STBX planned a trip to disney... to make matters worse this vacation will take place during my birthday. as if that hasn't been hurtful enough, he has decided to bring along his new girlfriend. i am so sick thinking about it, can't eat and i can't sleep because i am just so hurt that her first disney experience will be without me and more importantly, the new girlfriend will get to experience what i should have. has anyone else gone through this?