I left my xh with some trouble, but I had my now bf to lean on. I was in the wrong but it was nice to have someone there for me to give me the courage. Otherwise I may still be n a miserable marriage. Well now I'm miserable in my relationship and my son is so unhappy, I'm leaving again. There are soo many reasons to leave, he lies, cheats, gets drunk & can be violent at times, we're always arguing, I don't trust him, he's not paying his bills, etc. I'm trying to find the courage to tell him I'm leaving. We have an apt & the lease isn't up till Aug, so I'm pretty stuck there until then. I was playing the gf role & making my plans to leave in Aug, but that's just getting annoying now. I don't feel like sitting & making out for awhile to make him happy. I'm tired of hearing how much he loves me & misses me, when he's treated me like shit.
So how did you find the courage to leave your xh or BD or a bad relationship while you have kids? I guess I'm kind of afraid I'll be alone forever. All I want is a happy family but I obviously can't have it with him. He has 2 kids that I've never met in 4 years & he never sees them. Now he doesn't see them b/c he doesn't want to hear about his BM new bf. I wish I could kick him out but he won't go, his name is on the lease so I can't make him.
on Apr. 17, 2013 at 12:45 PM