A little over three years ago, I had my daughter. Her bio father since then hasn't been a big part of her life. He's been in and out of prison, jail, rehab, etc. And has maybe contributed 300 dollars and seen her half a dozen times in her entire life. She only knows him as her uncle now. Also, for the past two years I've been with an amazing man who has in all senses of the word become her daddy. It's something she started calling him and no one ever led her toward it.
Now, her bio father has recently gotten out of jail (again), randomly married a girl with two other kids, taking on all of that additional responsibility and out of the blue wants to see my little one again. Given his past drug use I'm obviously not comfortable with this but sometimes I feel like the bad guy. I would just like other moms' thoughts on the subject, thanks :)
on Apr. 19, 2013 at 2:41 PM