So, I am a single loving devoted mother to my 4 yr old beautiful lil boy. I came across an idea that I should be friends with more single mothers, so we can help each other. My days are filled with spending so much time with my son. Such as, getting him ready for school, working, homework, my homework, playtime, dinner, bath, bed. My routine is great for the both of us, but I have been single going on 4 years and feel like I want some me time. Time for me to seek a potential father figure for my son (even tho I am super mom, and he already is the love of my life) but my single friends are always telling me I need to get out more. I thought to myself maybe they are right, it has been long enought. i asked myself am I stuck in this perfect routine, this comfort zone, that I will never get out of because I created it to comfort me and my baby boy? The answer is yes, i won't, unless I reach out to other single super moms that are as cool as me :) and want the same. if we get to know each othe, let our kids get to know each other and share babysitting maybe one weekend out of a month to enjoy ourselves by swapping. It doesn't mean we are bad mothers weare just trying to balance single motherhood with a social life( which I have not had for 4 years) nows the time ladies. Lets do this. Help each other!