I broke up with bd bc he is selfish, demanding, and has a bad temper. We have dated for 4 years on, and off...I have a restraining order on him....but temporary...which I can't afford to keep , bc the judge keeps having us revist this. Last time, I gave in saying he could contact me about the baby....he has contacted me twice in 3 weeks- and just asked "how is the baby." Very generic minimal effort crap.
I am planning on dropping the order in 2 weeks when we meet again. I can't afford this, and have to save lawyer fees for the custody battle.
He is going to fight for joint- he's already told me. He smokes pot, has a bad temper...I feel his house is unfit...it's half-asses put together work in progress , no drywall, or insulation.
Im scared he's going to get joint....he can have visits if he wants, but I'm fighting for full physical , sole custody....