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He chose drugs over his son..

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Ok, so I don't talk to my ex at all. Last time we saw/talked was like the beginning of February and it didn't turn out so great in the end. I'm a very timid person when it comes to ppl who are dominant and he pretty much intimidated me saying that he WOULD get to see his son AND get to have him without me there. Well nothing's happened. I was visiting with a friend whom is also a friend with him and she told me that's he's no longer clean. Again.. And his pour excuse was that he never gets to see his son. What??!! I'm home all day with my son everyday. You can find a way to drive your lazy high ass 25 miles to come see your son. But no. Meth is apparently more important. I just hope he realizes that now that he's chosen that path instead of getting his shit together, that he'll never get to see him now. It's quite sad really, but hey. He did this to himself. Sry, just had to vent some.
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by on Apr. 21, 2013 at 2:14 PM
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steviechick
by on Apr. 22, 2013 at 1:57 PM

Luckily my ex has left our daughter alone.  He used to send her nasty text msgs for ignoring him.  As it turned out my daughter wasn't ignoring him.  She was working a lot of hours and was actually going through a lot of mental anguish knowing her father cheated on me for three yrs and fathered two kids in the process while doing other digusting things behind our backs.  My ex knows where our daughter works.  He's even brought his 'love' child to visit twice at work - something my ex should know isn't the decent thing to do.  Ever since my ex has come out and told us of his affair he's been truly the devil.  Besides dragging the deadbeat to court, we've not seen him since my daughter's HS graduation when he tried to sneak into ceremony but decided to creep on us in the parking lot. 

Kazmira222
by Bronze Member on Apr. 22, 2013 at 3:02 PM
I wonder why men gotta be such creepers in these kinda situations. It's not hard to be civil. But they gotta make it that much more complicating.. Lol


Quoting steviechick:

Luckily my ex has left our daughter alone.  He used to send her nasty text msgs for ignoring him.  As it turned out my daughter wasn't ignoring him.  She was working a lot of hours and was actually going through a lot of mental anguish knowing her father cheated on me for three yrs and fathered two kids in the process while doing other digusting things behind our backs.  My ex knows where our daughter works.  He's even brought his 'love' child to visit twice at work - something my ex should know isn't the decent thing to do.  Ever since my ex has come out and told us of his affair he's been truly the devil.  Besides dragging the deadbeat to court, we've not seen him since my daughter's HS graduation when he tried to sneak into ceremony but decided to creep on us in the parking lot. 


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jasminesmomm175
by on Apr. 23, 2013 at 2:36 AM

i have the same problam it hurts but our kids are better off with out them since meth over powers love 

Kazmira222
by Bronze Member on Apr. 23, 2013 at 9:36 AM
Indeed it does. :/


Quoting jasminesmomm175:

i have the same problam it hurts but our kids are better off with out them since meth over powers love 


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theresa1966
by on Apr. 23, 2013 at 1:12 PM

It's best that you keep him away from your child. With him using and broken promises will effect a child. My younger son doesn't know his father. All that he remembers is a guy in long hair. It's court order that he can't see my son. He has to see a therapist and he won't do it. Plus he owes over 12,000 plus tax on child support. Plus he is going through drug court for the charge of growing and saleing 2 years. Police raided his house. Him and his girlfriend and one son at that time. Since then they had another kid. I heard they finally broke up.....He don't care for anyone but himself...these poor kids simple frown

easinpc
by Gold Member on Apr. 23, 2013 at 5:06 PM

Hugs!

samhannon
by on Apr. 25, 2013 at 6:17 PM
Have had to start the truth telling already. My lad just this evening ask if dad knew how to get to us. Had to tell him dad hadn't phoned in the last week


Quoting Kazmira222:

Oh definitely. I don't plan on making it sound like his father is awful, but he will know the truth. Nothing worse than lying about stuff. :/




Quoting samhannon:

Only thing I can add to what has been said already is try not to give your son the bad about his dad I have battled with it his dad keep threatening suicide - not the same I know but also affects kids. Just tell him the good and what you know best to your ability. It's hard but later your don will thank you for it he will make his own mind up about his dad they all do


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