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I am finally going to file

Posted by on Apr. 22, 2013 at 12:31 AM
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My husband and i have been separated since last June we stayed on a talking basis until about 3 months ago. it was really weird and unexpected i believe it has something to do with my so called best friend who is currently sleeping with him. i had finally lost all hope and scheduled and appointment with a lawyer to file for divorce. he has given me maybe $400 since June to help with or 4 kids. i am done being nice. my sons birthday party was Saturday he called me Thursday to let me know he was paying to get his motorcycle to get it fixed so he couldn't afford to help. i think getting this all done is going to help me forward with my life.
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conniejo75
by Bronze Member on Apr. 22, 2013 at 12:34 AM
I would've done it sooner. But it sounds like u are now ready to start over.
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SpurgeonMom
by Member on Apr. 22, 2013 at 12:38 AM
i ask defiantly ready now. i kept holding on to hope that obviously wasn't there. realizing he hasn't grown up at all. i found a law office near me that is based off of income so i might not have to pay much at all


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I would've done it sooner. But it sounds like u are now ready to start over.

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Shygirl951
by on Apr. 22, 2013 at 2:32 AM
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Congrats mama! You deserve so much more!
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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Apr. 22, 2013 at 8:26 AM
It's a big jump good luck!!!
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Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Apr. 22, 2013 at 8:44 AM
Good luck mama!!
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steviechick
by on Apr. 22, 2013 at 11:23 AM

Congrats for finding that attorney you can afford AND for doing something positive in your life.  Hugs to you, mama!

Monsita
by Bronze Member on Apr. 22, 2013 at 11:35 AM

I am so glad you are ready to fight for your kids rights!

It is their Dad's duty and responsability to help FINANCIALLY TO RAISE THEIR KIDS even if they are already dating.........because if he does not provide for them, he will use that money to date some more.

MommieJ
by on Apr. 22, 2013 at 1:24 PM

I think it is great that you are ready to move forward and drop unneccesary baggage from your life. Be strong and always remember that your doing this for you and your childrens happiness! 

you rock

SpurgeonMom
by Member on Apr. 22, 2013 at 2:01 PM
thank you ladies! I really appreciate the input and giving me more courage to keep moving forward
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