three year old talking to father about him being "mean" to mommy
Wow... Bella just gave it to her dad over the skype. First she asked him why he never calls or comes to see her (he hasnt spoken to her in over two weeks, over a month before then)
Then after that they played for a while, over the skype, without me in the room. Soon as I got back in the room though she says to him "daddy you can't be mean to mommy, remember when you were mean to mommy when we lived there?"
I tried to tell her "dont' say that you hurt daddy's feelings" but she just kept going on and on about how he needs to be nice to me. I said "remember bella that was along time ago" she says "I know buut daddy you have to be nice to my mommy"
Needless to say he's pissed about it, probably feeling shitty. He thinks me and my family are brain washing her. I know its not coming from my end, and I dont think its coming from my parents. I told him he just needs to spend more time with her and that she doesnt have a filter and just says what comes to her mind.
Honestly I don't feel horrible about it, its just what she remembers. I hate that she brought it up to him, but what can I do?
Lately she's been telling everyone about this, just the other day we were at a friends house and she told my friend the same thing.... idk I guess its my own fault for not leaving sooner....
We left about a year ago when she was 2 1/2 and this is a relativly new thing that she's started talking about. Is this normal? What can I do to fix it?
I told him that maybe if we start communicating well to each other in front of her it might help