So he calls tonight and my 13 year old ds asks if he is working.... X has not worked in a long time. So then ds asks him where he lives now. X has been very transient and lived in 4different places in the last 6 months and had told the kids he was afraid he would b homeless. So Ds is concerned and trying to make conversation and asks where he lives now? Does he rent or own? Does he have a room mate? X gives very vague answers. Then ds asks for the address. X changes the subject. 18 yo ds who is in on the conversation asks why his dad changed the subject. X says he wants to know why ds wants the address. X says - who wants to know? Ds says me dad. X says why? Ds days I want to send you something. X says what? Ds says- letters dad. Older son says what do you think we're gonna send you? X says something worse. And refuses to give the kids his address. Douche.
When we hung up 18 yo laughs and says - boy did anyone else think that was super weird?
Hmmm you refuse to give your kids your address because you are afraid I am gonna try and get child support to help take care of our kids. In the process further hurting your 13 yo who just loves you and wanted to send you stuff because he misses you. How pathetic.