My daughter is 6 months old and has never met her father. We split when I was 7 wks preg bc of physical amd verbal abuse. He put a protective order on me when i was 5 months pregnant for hitting him. In all reality I was defending myself. Evem after that we still hung around each other. At 7 months pregnant a ffight hsppened again. Since that day I've never been around him. He has a 3 yr old daughter and is AMAZING to her and is back with the mother of that child. He has never once asked or seen my daughter. We've been going to court for child support for about 3 months. We're setting up visitation. They should be meeting soon. I don't believe he wants to be apart of her life it's more of a drag for him. Since my daughter was born i've sent texts, Christmas cards, emails about my baby to him amd i would get NO response. I'm really nervous how their meet will go. I will be there supervising. I don't him in and out of her life but I at least want to try. I feel like his "love" for our child would never compare to the love he has for his 1st daughter. Help, advice, encouragement, anything..
on May. 1, 2013 at 1:39 AM